As dedicated Oprah Life Class Students, We wanted to share with other Oprah fans our favorite life class moments, things we have learned, a-ha moments we have had and ideas that will help us to live our best lives.

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Last exercise of fit test! #lifeclass krista pumps it out! Woo!

Insanity fit test!! Krista pumps out the pushup jacks even though she sounds like a dying cat #lifeclass

Week 2 of Insanity…Krista tests the fit jeans to see her progress! #lifeclass feeling great and loving the challenge!

@oprah at #lifeclass Toronto. Feeling so exhilarated about my future and no longer addicted to my story. #lifechanging.

@oprah at #lifeclass Toronto. Feeling so exhilarated about my future and no longer addicted to my story. #lifechanging.

Krista and Kayla put up a Gratitude board in their home so as to be able to see what their thankful for every single day when they walk in the door. They hope this will give you some ideas on how to be thankful for the many gifts in your life.

Get Working on Your Vision!

-Kayla

Krista makes a promise to workout for 60 days so as to fit into her skinny jeans which she has renamed her fit jeans. Watch her progress every Monday as she uploads a new video of how the jeans are fitting! Get inspired to get your body in great shape too!

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Kayla and I are working on our vision boards. Here is a clip of us discussing our vision for our lives and how we are putting our vision boards together. We are so excited to be doing this and we will post pictures of our finished boards shortly. We hope this encourages you to complete your vision for your lives as well. All the best to you lifers!

Didavision at @Oprah ‘s #LIFECLASS ! Inspiring video on the power of the mind and visualization! #DREAMCOMETRUE

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“How can you begin giving more of your time to what you were really meant to do with your life?”

I can stop worrying about money, start living fearlessly, and look high and low for a social work job.

-K

After #LIFECLASS NYC @Oprah delivers a powerful message.

@Oprah ‘s #LIFECLASS Audience Dancing in NYC. Feel the energy and excitement of 5000+ #LIFECLASS students! Blessed to be front row! #DREAMCOMETRUE

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1.      What is the story you are telling yourself right now? What self-limiting beliefs within that story (like, “I’m not good with money” or “I’m not creative”)?

I am constantly telling myself that I’m not strong enough to do social work.  I tell myself that there is a reason that I have not found the job of my dreams.  I tell myself that I will fail.

2.      Tony Robbins says we need to see life as it is—but not worse than it is. Can you describe your life realistically without emphasizing the negative?

I am having a hard time describing my life as it is while not focusing on the negative.  Because I feel so much frustration in my career, I struggle with feeling as if I am not “good enough”to have a career the way that my social work friends are.  Because I am feeling really stuck in where I am in my life, I feel as if I tend to focus on the negative, and how I am not where I want to be.

3.      He says the only two choices we have are to lead an inspired life or a dead life. Which choice have you made so far? What’s one example from the past six months that exemplifies this choice?

In the past six months, as a result of life class, I have changed my life from dead to inspired.  In july I chose to move to Australia for three months and then backpack South East Asia before returning home.  This trip left me with such a buzzing high and I felt as if I could accomplish anything.  Since watching Tony I have been able to maintain that sense of positive energy, however I am still not feeling fulfilled in my own life.

4.      Write about a recent happy moment.

Today, I pushed myself to run the escarpment stairs by my house four times when I usually only run them twice.

I felt so proud of myself and so accomplished.

5.      Tony Robbins has said, “I asked her about her joy, and she gave me her wound.” Looking at the above answer, did you describe something happy—or tinged with pain or dissatisfaction?

Wow.  I answered with something happy, but I followed it up with my past disappointments. I had no idea that I did that.

6.      He says people have six needs: love, certainty, adventure, significance, growth and contribution. Write down your two top needs from that list.

Love and significance.

7.      Now describe what you’ve given up as a result of having those two needs as your priorities. For instance, if you chose certainty, which means you value control over things, have you limited spontaneity in your life?

I have given up living my life for my self in some regard because I allow my love for my family and my friends to guide my life.

I consistently feel as if I will fail or have failed as a result of choosing significance.

8.      How do you define success? Write your definition below.

I define success as waking up in the morning with a sense of joy, fulfillment, and pride.

9.      Tony Robbins says success without fulfillment is failure. Does your definition of success include things that give you a sense of meaning? Would you say you’ve been successful so far?

My definition of success does include meaning.  I defined success by the feeling that it would give me in the morning.

I have been very successful in some regards of my life.  I have graduated with two degrees, worked in theatre, and traveled the world.

However, I have noticed a change in myself in the last few months and I am feeling more stuck than successful.  I have limited goals for my future because I am feeling lost and as a result I have limited my own successes.

10.  Where in your life do you feel stuck? What is the small action you can take to change? Then what massive action—an exponentially bigger step—can you take? 

I am feeling stuck in my career.  A small step that I could take is to meet with a person with my dream position and discuss their experiences.  I could also find a volunteer position that would improve my skills while trying to find work.

A massive step that I could take would be to walk into a hospital with my resume and meet the hiring manager.


Read more: http://www.oprah.com/oprahs-lifeclass/Oprahs-Life-Work-Lesson-2-Tony-Robbins-on-Living-Fearlessly#ixzz1rVKlg167

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1.  The first step is to identify what the pain is. In 10 words or less, finish this sentence: My pain is ____focusing on the things I’ve lost in my life________.

2.  If you have trouble answering that, take a deep breath and notice what’s causing you the most discomfort right now—not a twinge in a stubbed toe, but pain that comes from thoughts, for example, of a divorce or a job loss.
3.  Whatever the pain, you’ll feel it in specific areas of your body. Where does the pain reside with you—in your chest, stomach, lower abdomen? As you give it your attention, describe the thoughts that come with it.
The pain is in my shoulder, a tightening in my chest and my back. The thoughts/feelings that come with it are defeat, tiredness, and overwhelm.
4.  Look deeper into that particular pain—write down at least three things you’re holding on to that are causing it. These may be objects, relationships, situations or beliefs.
Three things that I’m holding onto that are causing the pain are:
1. The wish that things were different or could have been different.
2. Relationships that were meant only for a time but are with people I care deeply about.
3. The belief that I lost something that was meant for me and that it’s irreplaceable.
5.  Pain is often expressed through anger. List five things that bring up some version of anger for you (from frustration to rage).
1. Thinking of the way I was treated in the past.
2. When I feel like I’m stuck in a situation.
3. When people get involved and tell me how to run my life and it’s totally not what I’d do.
4. When I’m surrounded by people who are unsupportive of my dreams and wishes
5.Thinking that I wasted 6.5 years of my life and made a huge mistake.
6.  For each thing you listed, write an “anger rant” that describes how you really, truly feel. Don’t hold back. Say whatever you really want to say.
1. I hate the way you treated me. I never deserved that when I only ever treated you well. You make my blood boil. You hurt me and all the people I cared about. You took away some of the most important things in my life. I always deserved better. I hate that you manipulated me and made me feel bad about myself. I hate that you gutted me. I hate that I wasted so much time with you listening to all the garbage that came out of your mouth. I hate that I bought into your hatred and angst. I hate that you didn’t suffer like I did. I hate that kharma hasn’t come and kicked you in the ass like you deserve.
2. I hate feeling stuck like I can’t change things and like the world is somehow holding me down. I hate when I don’t feel like I have control and that I just feel hopeless that things won’t go the way I want and need them to go.
3. OMG I HATE it when people tell me how to run my life. They think they can just dictate to me how things should be. This is my life, you have your own. Go dictate your own life and let me dictate mine. Your opinion was not asked for and I don’t want to hear it. Don’t tell me how things should be when I know what I want for my life and I don’t want your opinion.
4. Negative people drive me nuts. I can do ANYTHING I WANT TO AND I CAN BE SUCCESSFUL AT IT. JUST BECAUSE YOU DON’T HAVE THE RIGHT MINDSET AND YOU DON’T BELIEVE IN YOURSELF AS MUCH AS I BELIEVE IN MYSELF DOESNT MEAN THAT I CANT DO WHAT I WANT AND ACHIEVE MY DREAMS.
5. It drives me nuts to think I wasted 6.5 years of my life and that I made the biggest mistake ever. I wish I could take every single day back and change it and make it completely different. There is not a single moment of that time that is important to me in the slightest. It feels like an entire waste of time for me. Nothing valuable came out of it.
7.  Working from your anger rant, write a list called “X should Y.” Examples: Tom should be more considerate of my needs. Or: Barbara should stop being so obsessed with herself.

1. X should apologize for everything he said and did and in some way make all the problems better.
2. Things should just go my way
3. My friends and family should butt out of my life and let me run things the way I want.
4. Negative people should take a page from my book and start being positive.
5. I shouldn’t think about those 6.5 years. I should just put them behind me.
8.  Now write another list called “I could Y” by substituting “I could” for “X should.” Examples: I could be more considerate of my needs. Or: I could stop being so obsessed with Barbara.

I could apologize to myself for letting myself be treated so poorly and for letting myself be so deeply hurt. I could apologize to myself for not standing up for me and for accepting abuse. I could vow never to let that happen again in any area of my life or from any person. I could figure out how to change the problems and find solutions that would work for me in the best possible way without compromising my needs and wishes.

I can demand from the universe that things will change and my life will improve. I can decide that no matter how hopeless things feel I will push forward with my dreams and goals and never let the monotony of the world get me down.

I could politely tell people, “thank you for your opinion, but it is not required” and if they continue I could tell them to stop.

I could ask negative people to be responsible for their energy. I could ask them not to bring negativity around me. And if they continued, I could ask them to stop or I could stop listening to them and politely excuse myself.

I could acknowledge the 6.5 years and say, “I’m letting that go” every time I think about them. I could practice focusing on the present moment and the joy that is now in my life.
9.  Notice how much more challenging it is to live your ethics than to focus on what others should do. How will this change the way you direct your energy next time you get angry?

Thinking this way has made me feel empowered. I really realized I have the power in any situation and by being angry, I am giving my power away. The next time I get angry, I will stop, take a breath and refocus. If I can decide either in my head or on paper, I will write down what the other person or people should do. Then I will figure out what I could do. I will direct my energy from the problem to the solution. Wow, AHA! I love this. I really get it. Can’t wait to try it in a ‘of the moment’ anger.
10.  What corrosive thoughts (pain) have you been keeping to yourself (like, “I suck” or “everyone’s against me”)? How can you rewrite them to signal a shift you will make? Examples: I do X well, and I will focus on that. Or: I will ask X person for support.

Corrosive Thoughts:                            Rewritten:

I’m so fat.————————————————-I’m healthy and fit. I have a great body.
I’ve made so many mistakes.—————I can change anything. My past does not define me.
I’ll never be any good.—————————I am perfect just the way I am.

I will have to watch my thoughts over the next few weeks and write any corrosive ones down and then re-write them. I find this activity extremely helpful. I want to change my thoughts.